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So here is a little update about my daughter.

If you didn't read my previous post here it is : Terrible Twos Already?

It is actually amazing the results that I have gotten just from being consistent. I really think that being consistent is important to remember when raising a child. From experience, Since I have been staying a lot more calm while disciplining her I noticed that she responds better and goes on about her business. When I would get frustrated, she would get frustrated then it would turn into some chaotic uproar. I also noticed that she treats me a lot better. Before she would bite and smack me when she would get mad and not get her way. I had a friend tell me that kids like schedules and routines. See and I have been pretty laid back with the whole schedule, but now it makes total since as why to have one. I don't use my schedule down to the minute, but I sure use it as a guide. I guess you could say that it is my 24-7 work schedule except the benefits are way better than any job I have ever had. I have been keeping calm when telling her no. And she acts like a completely different child. When she starts to act out of control. I sit her down and talk to her. She respects me better. I have not been bitten once since I have taken a different approach. Since the out come was so good that it inspires me to stick to my guns with the guidelines I have set for myself.

• Be Direct
• Be Patient
• Be Consistent
• Stick To Your Guns

I am really proud of myself for being patient and allowing me and my daughter to get an understanding of one another.